I’ve dreamed of being spontaneous – ready instantly for any eventuality life might bring. Alas, I am not by nature given to acting on sudden impulses. To paraphrase Webster, I am not given to acting without effort and premeditation. Consequently, I am learning to plan to be spontaneous.
I don’t know about your world, but in mine, being spontaneous with family and friends most often involves food. Having ingredients on hand is essential – a complicated recipe is not.
enamel roasting pan

olive oil
onion, sliced

add lemons, cut in wedges and squeezed
garlic cloves, peeled

whole chicken(s)
lemons halved, squeezed into and put in the cavities
seasoned with salt, pepper, and fresh rosemary

partially baked, potatoes added

baked a bit longer, carrots added

asparagus added

served on a big platter in the middle of the table

along with arugula dressed with olive oil and balsamic,
enough to feed and appeal to a crowd of various ages.

Are you naturally spontaneous, or working on it???….I’d love to hear your stories!